signs she wants you to ask her out on a date
We all want to ask a girl out for a date from time to time. Whats difficult is finding the right timing. If you understand what she’s thinking and feeling, that makes it so much easier finding the right timing. To understand her you must look for the signs she wants you to ask her out on a date. The subtle expressions, movements and the things she says. At first this can seem overwhelming. But once you start looking for these subtle things you start seeing how obvious it is.
I used to be terrible at understanding women. Whenever I talked to a girl my heart would start racing. I would find it completely impossible to even speak at all. I know you have felt this way too, it’s not uncommon. We get scared in situations where we are being evaluated, in the same way we get evaluated at a job interview. In the sense that we have something in front of us that we really want. and we are being checked whether we are good enough to get to be with this girl or to get hired for the job.
Once I found myself at a point where some of my friends started getting girlfriends. I watched a lot of romantic movies that influenced me and got me thinking. Thinking about whether the reason I didn’t have a girlfriend was because something was wrong with me. Am I too ugly? Am I not charming enough? I didn’t understand that the real reason was because I didn’t understand how women work. But not only that, I also didn’t understand how I worked and so didn’t manage myself in a beneficial way.
One day I had enough and took some drastic action. I went to hairdressing school to learn how girls work. While to my friends and family I disguised it as “I want to become a hairdresser”. But as a 15 year old, I was very see through.
I ended up in a class with no other guys and thirty girls. This was the perfect setting for me to learn how they work and to start understanding, finally. What I didn’t know was that if I get too close to them without making a move or showing that I’m interested in some way. Then they will see me as a gay friend, which I was. I’m not homosexual but everyone thought I was and I behaved accordingly. I could spend hours talking about make-up or fashion.
After about a year I understood girls well. they even shared their deep secrets and sexual bravados with me. Well however deep secrets you can have as a 16 year old. The problem for me wasn’t understanding women anymore. The problem was that I understood them too well. I became one of the girls. Even though I understood how they think and could read their body language like an open book. There were no signs she wants you to ask her out on a date. At least not aimed in my direction.
So what did I lack? What could’ve gotten me a date in these situations wasn’t lack of understanding. Rather lack of appropriate behaviour from my side. Looking back at those days from this current perspective I see so many opportunities for me to make a move but I didn’t.
What I was lacking was being a man, I didn’t embrace my role but instead became one of them.
You came here to learn about the signs she wants you to ask her out on a date and I’m going to share them with you. Firstly I want you to consider the possibility that reading the signs might not be what you need. What will level up your game might be to become the person who doesn’t care about the signs. But the person who asks her out because you want to. But that’s up to you to decide.
The signs she wants you to ask her out on a date
There are many different types of signs. I will break them down for you to make understanding easier to grasp. Girls will both show these signs with how they move and how they speak. Let’s start going through the body language aspect.
What are the physical signs that she wants you to ask her out on a date? Many of them are the same as signs she might like you or be interested in you. I have a post going through those in more detail.
• Tilting her head
• Leaning into you
There are several more signs than these and some women might fake these to make you like her. Especially girls working for a tip such as bartenders and waiters. Every girl is also a bit different and will show you they like you in some different variations. Do not fear, once you start picking up on things like these you will know when she is into you.
There’s also signs hidden in her speech, or not so hidden. The signs she wants you to ask her out on a date that you can find through what she says. And how you say it may or may not be less subtle than the body language signs. This is because we have an easier time controlling what we say than how we move. Because our muscle memory controls most of our movements unconsciously. While we have to think to speak.
If she starts using a softer tone and start speaking at a slower tempo. That can mean that she’s feeling some sexual tension. What you are talking about at the moment and where she’s looking can state if this is true or not. it’s rather obvious if you are talking about something sexual. If she’s looking deep into your eyes, looking at your lips, your muscles or your crotch same rules apply.
When she starts asking you questions, and I mean questions about you or your life. Especially if the conversation was previously aimed at her. And she asks you question then that is her way of showing interest in you. You wouldn’t ask about something or someone if you didn’t want to know the answer would you? And if you want to know the answer that most definitely means you are curious doesn’t it?
If you are talking about things like ideal partners. sexual experiences or family and relationships. And she seems to enjoy it then that will most likely direct her thinking towards a fantasy of you two together. As a couple or even as a family. If entertaining this thought does not seem to put her off, then asking her out will be the least of your issues.
And now to the most obvious one out there. If you talk about dates or dating or ideal dates. Go for it, she’s literally begging for it. There’s a whole bunch of signs that I’ve missed. let me know in the comments if you know of any signs that she wants you to ask her out on a date that I’ve missed. And I’ll experiment and write about them as well. Thank you for reading this far. I appreciate you putting some time and effort into this, have a great day my friend and see you soon.